I have a friend that absolutely hates her sister's boyfriend. My friend has a reason for hating him but she's so uncomfortable telling anyone about it that her sister doesn't even know. I'm sure that it's an understandable reason since she's usually a peaceful, sweet girl so she wouldn't hate anyone without a good enough reason, right? I know that I shouldn't get myself involved in other's problems, especially since they should settle it as sisters but a lot happened recently that I can't just ignore.
Her sister's boyfriend came to visit from CA and they finally saw each other after a year just webcamming. I met the boy and he's a really sweet and cool guy. I approved immediately. But my friend was extremely angry and went ahead and broke her sister's laptop and threw away all the presents, pictures, notes, candy he gave her. The reason she hates him better be really good because I can't believe she would do such a thing! I mean, that's not your property. That's NOT yours to throw away. She should settle it civilly and not act so childish. She should just tell her sister her problem because it's so immature, no matter how you look at it. How can she hate him so much? So much that she wants her sister to go back home permanently and leave her alone here in the PI. She hates him so much she would rather fly solo than deal with her sister's relationship.
My guess is that she's been holding on to that reason for so long that it's grown inside her. Sounds like a Sailor Moon plot but really, I think she needs to communicate her feelings to her sister. I'm sure her sister would understand (as long as it isn't a stupid reason, which I'm starting to feel is).
Having to go to school during summer is NEVER fun.
I remember first going before I began my freshman year in high school for algebra and 6 hours of math for five days a week was pretty much torture. But it wasn't as bad as...
COLLEGE SUMMER SCHOOL.
(Hm, maybe I got a little carried away with the colors and the font...)
I have a friend whose father cheated on his wife and now, they're going to separate. While his family is in California, he's in the Philippines with his mistress (or the "bitch", according to my friend)...what a man (sarcasm). It's been really hard on my friend...not because she's a daddy's girl (they were never close) but because she's a mama's girl and her mother is taking it really hard. Not to mention her mother refuses to tell her other family members about it so it's just between the two of them.
Not only that but last year her cousin's father was caught cheating on his wife as well. His wife didn't know but his children did and decided not to tell their mother. I can't say I agree with their decision to not tell their mom, but they knew the truth would destroy her so until this very day, she never knew her husband had another woman.
My friend told me she really doesn't know how she can trust men from now on. She's never been in a relationship, even though guys fall for her all the time and now, chances are very slim for those poor fanboys. I'm aware that just because those two men in her life were terrible doesn't mean she should just despise all males, but I can empathize with her. Men should know that women are delicate. Our hearts are fragile and when it comes to these types of things, we get really emotional.
I, myself, didn't have the peachiest first relationship and lost my trust in guys about a year ago. Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy guys as friends but if they try to be anything more than that, I go on defense mode. It's not fun getting your heart broken and I don't intend on feeling that way anytime soon. When it comes to the opposite sex, I'm known to have a very detailed pros and cons list.
Not only that but my other close friend just broke up with her boyfriend of two years. What did he do? He cheated on her.
Sigh. These stories are really frustrating and makes me distrust males even more. It makes me wonder if I'll ever be lucky enough to find someone who'll love me enough to stick with me until the day I die. Are there any chivalrous knights in shining armor out there anymore? Wait, I'm expecting too much. Let me rephrase that: are there any single, good guys left out there that doesn't always have sex up there and has no STDs down there?
Someday... the blessed day will come when a boy will come on over, lower my defenses, and make me feel what it's like to be in a deep, meaningful, honest, loyal relationship filled with nothing but love.
